Pàdé Dating Tips

Whether it's your first time meeting or you've been matched by us, here are a few tips to make that first date unforgettable:

Come With An Open Mind

Don't overthink it; it's just a date not a marriage interview! Focus on having fun and getting to know each other.

Try To Relax Before The Date

Engaging in some relaxing activity prior to the date can help ease you into it. Try meditating, yoga or even listening to music while prepping for the date.

Be Yourself!

Try as much as possible to ease into your authentic self while on the date. Wear what you feel great in as this can also affect your overall demeanor.

Ask Thoughtful And Mindful Questions

Show interest in your date's passion and experiences. However try not to get them uncomfortable with your questions. Genuine curiosity helps build rapport.

Try Humor

Now don't go overboard with the jokes that they get boring. Keep it simple, just enough to bring smiles to your date's face.

In today's dating world, we're bombarded with endless options-swipe left, swipe right, always looking for the "next best thing." But could having too many choices be holding us back from true connections?

Lets talk about the fallacy of optionality.

The Fallacy of Optionality

is the belief that there's always a "better" match around the corner. This mindset often Leads to commitment issues, superficial judgments, and a constant cycle of looking for perfection.

Here's the truth:

Real connections are built on depth, trust, and time-not endless options. Focusing on one person and giving them a chance to grow into something meaningful could be the secret to lasting love.

Myth:

Matchmaking is only for people who can't find love on their own.

Fact:

Matchmaking is for those who prioritize love and want a personalized approach!

Many people use matchmakers not because they can't find love, but because they want to find a deeper, more meaningful connection. Matchmakers take the guesswork out of dating, saving you time and introducing you to people who genuinely align with your values and goals. That's why you can always trust Pàdé to help find your match.

Try An Outdoor Adventure

Go hiking or try something more adventurous like kayaking. A bit of physical activity creates excitement and shared challenges.

Gifting

If it's virtual, send her an Uber Eats gift card, or wine, flowers etc. Something physical to make the next date feel real. You can also take thoughtful minimal gifts on physical dates.

Try A Fun Activity

An Escape Room or Puzzle-Based activity is a fun, light-hearted way to see how you collaborate and communicate. If it's virtual, you can consider playing online game together, watching a show or a movie.

Food

Find out her favorite cuisine and look up the best or most creative options for it

Do Something Interesting

Choose something interesting or niche like seeing an exhibition or going to an art gallery. It could spark new conversations, and you can learn more about each other's interests